Decision was made for me tonight. I tried to have a good conversation - state my concerns in a non emotional, non confrontational manner. I really did. However when excuses were made and I did everything in my power to keep my calm going I could only say the following:
"We, the boarders, are responsible for the care of our animals"
BO's reply "No, I am"
"We, the boarders, are responsible for the higher farrier and vet bills caused by your lack of proper care"
Probably not my finest moment as her and her family is going through their own personal hell, but it was the truth and it needed to be said.
I believe after tonight at least two of us are moving our horses in the next 30 days or less.